TMI Tuesday - The Long & Short of it

TMI Tuesday – The long and short of it
Thank you Erotic Adventures in Brisneyland for the following TMI Tuesday questions.

The LONG and the SHORT of it

1. What is the longest relationship you have been in?

Late October 2012 marked 16 years since The Hubs and I started dating. By far the longest (and best!) I've ever been in.

2. What is the shortest relationship you have been in?

Not counting one-time playmates? I "dated" a guy in high school for a week to the day. A few months later I met The Hubs.

3. How often do you have sex? How often do you want sex?

The Hubs and I have some sort of sexual contact at least once a day (under normal circumstances) I'm not trying to brag or anything, just honest. It's not always penetration, sometimes it's just oral for one or the other. Sometimes it's oral and penetration. Not saying there isn't the occasional night after life has worn us down that we pass out without even a kiss. Just saying the "norm" is a lot. Lol

4. How long does sex usually last?

Are we including foreplay? I'd say average 30-45 min. Sometimes longer, sometimes shorter. Just depends on how many positions, toys & props we are using!

5. Have you ever had an experience where someone couldn’t perform, finished too quickly or couldn’t keep up with you? Tell us about it?

Performance issues happen. Especially in a swing lifestyle that has nerves running rampant. I haven't had too many but I try to just put them at ease that Jane is a judgement-free slut. If they aren't hard yet I'll play longer. We'll get there... It's certainly NOT going to help if you are an asshole about it!


6. If you could only have one “type” of sexual encounter for the rest of your life, would you prefer

a) short and sweet
b) wham bam thank you ma’am
c) here for the long haul
d) slow and tender

I honestly don't really know how to answer this... I like a good hard fuck, so I'm drawn to the "wham bam" but if I had to pick one forever I also want The Hubs for "the long haul" so I guess I want a combo of b & c... After all I'm a swinger - we get to have both ;)


Bonus: Would you consider ending an otherwise healthy and loving relationship if the sex wasn’t what you wanted?

No. At least not if I felt he was worth it. "Good sex" is dependent on so many factors, I'd try to work on it together and figure out how to work past the issues holding the sex-life back from full potential.

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Happy TMI Tuesday!