Saturday, May 28, 2011

Welcome one, welcome all...

I live a double life.

One half of me is that of an average wife and mother. I have been married for more than a decade and have known him an additional 5 years on top of that. We have a child, and a dog. We are an average family living a charmed life in he 'burbs. But, behind closed doors is a side of me few know.

My husband and I enjoy sex. We enjoy it with each other, and with others. We have a kind of relationship that not all couples have, we are swingers.

But wait, what exactly does that mean? The truth is that it means something different for every couple. For us we enjoy a variety of things, with a variety of number and or gendered playmates. We have almost always been in the same room at the same time. We also share every detail of every interaction with a potential or actual playmate with each other. We do this by trying to keep all chatting done by electronic means (instant message, email and text) and then we exchange media and catch up. We have met and or talked to other couples who have other arrangements, but this is what works for us. We trust each other beyond a shadow of anything, we love each other more than we ever have and our sex life has never been better. It is a fun lifestyle to be in with a partner like I have.

The problem is keeping it all a secret. No one knows about our other side unless they have met us through one of our swingers channels. We have very close friends and family who are part of our every day lives who have absolutely no idea about this side of us. We have some "vanilla friends" who may suspect we have a freaky sex life, but I doubt any of them could ever imagine how far we have and want to take it. Thus the creation of this blog. I have rants and raves, questions and comments that I would love to get feedback on. Or sometimes like any dirty little secret you want to tell someone, but do it anonymously.

So, here goes... This blog will be 100% anonymous, but I welcome any and all feedback, questions and comments. I only ask that if you have something truely hateful to say please move along. I'm not here to debate you on the morality of my lifestyle choices. I'm not asking that everyone agree with me, and feel free to challenge me, I only ask for respect.

Looking forward to a good time...

The Wife.

1 comment:

  1. Word for Word you could have been writing about my secret life :) I love it! It's kind of fun to be anonymous - really allows you to open up and do and say things you wouldn't normally.

    I've subscribed as well :) Wouldn't want to miss a word!

    ~xxx~ Jezzy