Thursday, August 23, 2012


I have a little to say about a few things, so here are some snippets from The Wife.


The Hubs and I were in Dallas, TX a few weeks ago. We went out for The Hubs business, so he was in meetings most of the time but overall it was fun. It was HOT and we spent a few hours at the pool frying ourselves. Apparently we didn't take our own sun-knowing Floridian advice and sat out in the hottest part of the day with zero sunscreen.

I know, it was brilliance. And the below picture was my reward for the stupidity.


There are big possibilities on the horizon for The Hubs and I. It could mean a move to a new state. At first when I was told about it I almost threw up. I don't like change very well, and I've lived in the same city in Florida my entire life. My family is here and The Hubs family is close. I had fully implanted in my brain that we'd live here forever, and now this...oy.

After the initial freak out was over I've been able to come to a peace about the unknown. In the end all that really matters is that I'm with The Hubs and our family. It could mean Alaska and 24/7 darkness and we'll get through it. I know, cheesy right?? But it's the whole-hearted truth. There will be obstacles and adjustments but if it happens we'll figure it out.

Some days it seems like its a for-sure thing. Other days it doesn't seem like it's even in the maybe category, so who knows what/if/when there will be any real plans made. In the meantime I get to enjoy the fun side of a potential move - looking at all the gorgeous houses and day-dreaming of possibilities. And just think of the new swing opportunities in starting over in a new state!


Sometimes I think about texting or emailing Friendly McFrienderton to see if he is still reading my twitter/blog. This is mostly driven by my curiosity of if he is still watching. But I would be full of shit if I didn't admit that I am also curious if he sees me differently now.

All of it is curiosity, as I don't really think he judges me (sure hope not, I've known him a long time!) but I think it's also partly due to my exhibitionist side. Let's face it, the whole private twitter account didn't last long because the exhibitionist in me wasn't satisfied by the closed-nature of it. Clearly I like an audience and I also love the two-natured side of my life. I enjoy being a sweet Mommy & Wife on the outside and a dirty-thinking slut on the inside. So, the fact that he knows me first as the goodie-two-shoes but has discovered the "bad" side of me is kind of a turn on.

In the end each time I have this random thought I decide to leave him alone. If he wanted to talk to me he knows where to find me. And what if I text him and he's with his girl? I can't imagine that going too well for him and I'm not really all that keen on being a destructive force in relationships! So, I guess I'll just let my curiosity stew on that one.

Then there is The Friend... We haven't talked much. Summer is a scattered time with family vacations etc, but I've also taken a step back.


Because The Hubs said something to me that made me think about the situation. It was shortly after the "I'd have already fucked you if I didn't think it'd mess up my friendship with Lorenzo" conversation. We were talking about The Friend is never going to man-up for playtime and how I found that highly annoying. (lol) We all agree that no one would want anything to ruin our friendship and The Hubs then asked me to back-off with the drunk texts. If you think about it (he reminded me) The Friend has not acted on any of the opportunities that he'd been given, and wasn't that really answer enough?

Man, I hate when he is the voice of reason! So I've backed off. Not drunk texting him and I'll behave next time we see him too. Boo - being good is no fun.

Other Swingers:

Naughty-Twitter has given me a glimpse into the private lives of swingers all over the world. And even though I am always standing on my soap box saying how there is no right and wrong sometimes I look at them and think, hmm that's fucked up!

To each his own!

The Wife

Tuesday, August 21, 2012

TMI Tuesday - Painful Pleasure

1. Which do you enjoy more in bed, pain or pleasure?

I like a mix. I'm definitely a wimp with pain but there are some things that The Hubs knows gets me hotter. The real stickler for me, only The Hubs can hurt me - any playmates need to be nice... Well, mostly nice ;)

2. Do you like being tickled during sex? Where?

Uh, no. Tickles are laugh inducing and orgasm is no laughing matter!

3. Have you ever used feathers during sex?

I think we have used some before but as you can see it didn't make a great impression!

4. Do you like to be blindfolded during sex? Why?

On occasion, but mostly we use the blindfold for foreplay - making me have no idea what's coming next.

5. Have you ever used cold or heat as part of your sex play? What provided the cold or heat?

Ice cubes have certainly been used by both The Hubs and myself. I found it distracting when done to me, but enjoyed using it on The Hubs. As for heat - On a few occasions (maybe 2-3) The Hubs has poured hot wax on my nipple... Very, very rare but overall it was a good experience.

6. Do you enjoy being spanked, giving spankings, or both?

I love to spank and squeeze The Hubs ass. It's something I just recently told him that I don't get to do enough! Lol

I get spanked a lot (I'm often naughty!) and love when The Hubs man-handles my ass. Don't know why, just makes me feel sexy.

7. Do you have a safeword? Have you ever used it?

Ha! Yes, we do. The first time we ever tried anything I pulled out the safeword way too fast having no idea how it would immediately shut The Hubs down. I expected him to stop what he was doing and we would talk about whatever I was stopping. Uh, no. He is the kind of guy that no means no. So to have the safeword used he shut off his sexual system. (it was actually quite impressive to see)

Now we have a safeword for when I'm reaching the breaking point and one for stop now.

Bonus: Tell us in 3-4 sentences the most painful or pleasurable sexual experience you have had.

You'll have to read my post for that kind of story...

How to play TMI Tuesday: Copy the above TMI Tuesday questions to your blog, answer the questions there, then leave a comment on the tmituesdayblog so we’ll all know where to read your responses!

Happy TMI Tuesday!

Tuesday, August 7, 2012

TMI Tuesday... What's the question?

We have provided the answer, now you provide the question. For example:

Answer (given): 28 marbles. Question (you the blogger create): How many did she fit in her vagina?

1. Answer: My butt. Now you write the question for each answer given.

Question: What is The Hubs favorite feature about me?

2. Answer: stiletto black leather pumps

Question: What accessory says "Let's Fuck" no matter how tame the outfit?

3. Answer: hard and stiff

Question: How I take cock

4. Answer: “By George I think he’s got it!”

Question: The thought when a new playmate finally finds his groove.

5. Answer: socks

Question: What is the least sexiest accessory. Ever.

6. Answer: hole in the wall

Question: What is a gateway to the unknown?

How to play TMI Tuesday: Copy the above TMI Tuesday questions to your blog, answer the questions there, then leave a comment on the tmituesdayblog so we’ll all know where to read your responses!

Happy TMI Tuesday!