The Wife, The Girlfriend and The Threesome

As I wrote 99% of my last blog post we were days away from The Hubs having another date with The Girlfriend. The plan was for me to stay home on Mom duty and they go out and then hit up a hotel or Eyz after dinner to play. Out of the blue The Hubs said, "ya know, it would be great if you could join us"... a few texts later and I was barging my way into their date :)

To my surprise she didn't sound even mildly psyched about this idea when he told her I was joining along. Now, to back up here is some background on her...She's a swinging newbie. She did some light swinging way, way in her past but this is not the norm for her. So her reaction was more of a "girlfriend" than a "swinger".

She wanted to be sure we both knew that she and I would have to hit it off for her to want to play with me. (she knew I am straight but she considers herself bi) So it was almost not a guarantee it would be a threesome at all. I decided that if it wasn't working out for all of us I would just let them be alone upstairs  Maybe it was because she was nervous to me "his wife" or maybe she just wanted to have cock to herself and thought she'd be left out. I really don't know, but nonetheless we moved forward.

The night came and I'm sure her nerves were swirling just as mine were. The plan was for us to pick her up so that she could have some drinks and relax and enjoy the night too. During the day leading up to it The Hubs said he would like for me to move to the back seat when she got in the car because he knew she would be nervous and he wanted to calm her down. So when we got there I hopped in the back and she came out and we were on our way. He had been right, she was very, very nervous and it was... awkwardly quiet. I blame it on the sort of a strange dynamic. I have a relationship with The Hubs (obvs) and she had a relationship with The Hubs but having never met he was our only connection. And let's be honest, we know how women are with other women. Plus I was concerned about her feeling OK because of her hesitation so it made me conscious of every move I made.

We needed alcohol, STAT.

We got to drinking and talking and we both loosened up a bit. She was very nice and we chatted and drank for a while. Eventually it was time to play. We drove home and I took a page from The Hubs playbook and offered to get drinks for everyone while they went to the bedroom to get the party started. As in, give them some alone time to get started. He does this often in our MFMs and I thought it would make it more comfortable for her if they got started just the two of them.

They got started as I slowly made drinks and tried to waste some time downstairs without making it seem like I wasn't coming up. When I made it upstairs I could hear that they were having fun so I peaked in the door. She was mostly naked and they were standing by the bed groping each other. I slipped in and made my way to the chair in the corner and I got comfortable to watch the show.

Before we left he had set up our restraint system so he cuffed her arms and legs and started eating her pussy. Soon he flipped her over and spanked her hard and I knew what was coming. He was ready to fuck her. I began giving instructions from the chair. Telling him to fuck her. He did and she liked it. After he came he called me off the sidelines to join in.

The Hubs kissed and undressed me and led me to a toy which was waiting under the bed. He wanted me to use it on her while she blew him. Then she laid across our bed with her head hanging off while I held a toy in her pussy (it does the fucking for you) while The Hubs throat fucked her while she choked all over his big cock. She came all over the toy and he was ready to fuck again.

She flipped over on her knees and he got behind her and started banging her from behind. She reached over and indicated she wanted pussy so I rearranged to be in front of her. While he banged her from behind she ate my pussy. I watched The Hubs as he enjoyed the train we had going on. I always love seeing his face. He said he wanted to fuck me so she stopped eating and he came over and started to fuck me. He got out the Hitachi wand and I was sent over the edge and we came together while she watched.

After that we lay around for a while and caught our breath. We chatted and chilled until The Hubs started rubbing on her leg and I knew he had one more in him. I went back to the chair and he fucked one more cum out of her and then fell over in a spent heap. :)

We hung for a bit and then he drove her home.

When he got home we watched some TV to decompress and then I started sucking his cock and we fucked a final time to ensure I had drained his balls completely and passed out in a satisfied, tipsy sleep.

It was a fun night. There was very little interaction sexually between she and I mostly because I was so concerned about making her comfortable I probably over thought it all. So I stayed to the sideline until he or she made moves to initiate play. Was that the right move? Fuck if I know, but it worked out and we all had a great time. I'm sure we'll all do it again sometime, after all The Hubs has a birthday coming up! :)

The Wife

Uncharted Territory

Happy New Year, sluts! Lots of things are going on in life and love and I thought I'd try my best to jump back into sharing here.

Over the years we have played with people together and occasionally separate. However the one consistent thing was always we met them together to start off. As in, maybe The Hubs and a friend would hook up but the majority of the time we would play as a threesome and it always started as a three some. Then came The Girlfriend.

Now we differ on her title, so let me explain. He would NOT call her a girlfriend but he would probably call her his playmate, FWB or his sub. I don't mean "girlfriend" as a bad thing, I just mean she is a playmate of his who thus far has been only played with solo. And actually, I've never even met her. It is all with my knowledge so it is above board so I don't see girlfriend as a bad thing. They have gone out to dinner and talk by text every day. Plus she needs a blog name!  :)

This concept is totally new for us. And we're having to navigate a few new situations but here are a few reasons why it has even the remote possibility of working for us:

Our main "rules" still apply. The little things we do; we don't do phone conversations because then I can't read up and stay updated. We don't meet up or play without prior knowledge given to each other. Basic things like that. We stick to the fundamental rules that have made us a successful swinging couple for many years. If it ain't broke why fix it? These boundaries have always worked for us, they just needed a few adaptations to work in a solo situation. Breaking them will only lead to hurt, anger and a swift end to our participation in this lifestyle.

Total and complete honesty. Even if you do something stupid or the situation makes you look bad you gotta be honest. Tell the whole story and admit when you fuck up and it will be ok. If The Hubs did something stupid I wouldn't be mad at him as long as he tells me. Shit happens. I do stupid shit all.the.time. but if you 'fess up it always goes better.

Complete Openness. As in everything. Even if something is within the rules and normal scope we both get to know about it. Period.

Trust. This is the most important component of all. If we don't have 100% trust in each other and our system then it's game over and we go back to a monogamous marriage. And some serious counseling, perhaps. This is something I think of often and don't take lightly. There is nothing worth breaking this and I know The Hubs feels the same.

There are some new things happening but I'm sure we'll get through them and find a new normal. Hopefully I'll be back on here to take you along on the ride.

The Wife

**Editor's Note... since this was written we have played as a threesome. Blog post coming :)