TMI Tuesday - Painful Pleasure

1. Which do you enjoy more in bed, pain or pleasure?

I like a mix. I'm definitely a wimp with pain but there are some things that The Hubs knows gets me hotter. The real stickler for me, only The Hubs can hurt me - any playmates need to be nice... Well, mostly nice ;)

2. Do you like being tickled during sex? Where?

Uh, no. Tickles are laugh inducing and orgasm is no laughing matter!


3. Have you ever used feathers during sex?

I think we have used some before but as you can see it didn't make a great impression!

4. Do you like to be blindfolded during sex? Why?

On occasion, but mostly we use the blindfold for foreplay - making me have no idea what's coming next.

5. Have you ever used cold or heat as part of your sex play? What provided the cold or heat?

Ice cubes have certainly been used by both The Hubs and myself. I found it distracting when done to me, but enjoyed using it on The Hubs. As for heat - On a few occasions (maybe 2-3) The Hubs has poured hot wax on my nipple... Very, very rare but overall it was a good experience.

6. Do you enjoy being spanked, giving spankings, or both?

I love to spank and squeeze The Hubs ass. It's something I just recently told him that I don't get to do enough! Lol

I get spanked a lot (I'm often naughty!) and love when The Hubs man-handles my ass. Don't know why, just makes me feel sexy.

7. Do you have a safeword? Have you ever used it?

Ha! Yes, we do. The first time we ever tried anything I pulled out the safeword way too fast having no idea how it would immediately shut The Hubs down. I expected him to stop what he was doing and we would talk about whatever I was stopping. Uh, no. He is the kind of guy that no means no. So to have the safeword used he shut off his sexual system. (it was actually quite impressive to see)

Now we have a safeword for when I'm reaching the breaking point and one for stop now.


Bonus: Tell us in 3-4 sentences the most painful or pleasurable sexual experience you have had.

You'll have to read my post for that kind of story...

http://confessionsofswingerswife.blogspot.com/2011/10/my-punishment.htm
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