Question:
Hi Jane,
I have a question, not about the swinger lifestyle. "I am a slut, not a whore... there is a big difference." A quote from your Waste of Time, July 4, 2011 post. I looked up both words in Webster, basically the same definition. What is your definition of slut vs whore? Just curious. Thanks.
Answer:
This is a good question because this is something that differs for everyone.
Have you ever had a word just not sit well with you? For no real reason it just isn't pleasant to hear it? I have a few, cunt for example, it just rubs me the wrong way. The same goes for whore vs slut.
When I say I'm a slut I think of a sexy woman who loves to fuck for the fun of fucking. Whore makes me feel dirty and not a good dirty! More like for sale or used.
I'm not for sale and I'm not asking for a romance but a little connection goes a long way. To me, that's a whore. Or at least being treated like a whore.
For now, I'm just a proud slut! Thanks for the question!
The Wife
Hi Jane,
ReplyDeleteThank you for your answer. I hate being called buddy.
It's interesting how different people perceive different words. Veronica doesn't like whore either, though sometimes I'll use it when I'm in her ass :-)
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ReplyDeletethat's the way I see it also slut seems to mean more free and naughty type of interaction , while whore seems and I think means more a professional paid for kind of interaction.