tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2151214462025684026.post545138612634792815..comments2023-10-09T10:20:45.562-04:00Comments on Confessions of a Swinger's Wife: Reserved SwingerThe Wifehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14348133333618472151noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2151214462025684026.post-82370199079055811152011-10-02T13:18:36.130-04:002011-10-02T13:18:36.130-04:00I agree not all swingers are the same, and for me ...I agree not all swingers are the same, and for me that is one of the best aspects of the lifesytle. But if someone says hello you should say hello back. That isn't asking you to strip down naked and get to naughty time right there, but a common courtesy to respond.<br />If you don't respond to "hello" then what would make me think you are interested in play time?The Wifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14348133333618472151noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2151214462025684026.post-34904039414697268062011-09-09T12:30:28.465-04:002011-09-09T12:30:28.465-04:00I can see your point, but just because they are sw...I can see your point, but just because they are swingers doesnt mean their personalities cease. If they are reserved in normal modes, most likely they will be in the lifestyle as well. We tend to let people know up front that she isnt into lots of text and chat. But if we arent interested we say so. I on the other hand love to chat it up.<br />I disagree that just because someone swings they automatically get put into a singular category. There will be mild to wild and all things in between. Accept each person for what they are and what they bring. Dont label every swinger the same way. We are way different than many I have met up with. And thats a good thing.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2151214462025684026.post-18816824035748020572011-09-08T21:32:05.678-04:002011-09-08T21:32:05.678-04:00We totally agree with you--at least make an effort...We totally agree with you--at least make an effort, show a little interest, something, anything. We don't want to chase (or for that matter annoy) anyone.John and Annhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11498068360076870625noreply@blogger.com