I have this one reader who I feel like may be my number one fan. His name is Mike. I don't know anything more about him other than when I've been silent on here he is the first to notice. So here's to you, Mike... wherever you are.
Dear Mike,
First, thanks for reading!! When I started this blog I wondered if anyone would read it? If it was a normal blog topic I'd at least have my mother as a loyal fan, but clearly THAT isn't going to happen. So I always appreciate knowing people are actually reading it. Or maybe you guys stick around for hopes of more videos? ;)
A few things contributed to my time away. First I killed my computer. Not exactly sure how but I was uploading pictures one day and came back to find it dead. Then we moved. And since I just bought a new house I didn't feel like shelling out a few hundred on a new computer. So I've waited until now to replace it. So at least that excuse is out of the way.
The main reason though... I haven't got a lot to say. At least not anything good to say. I haven't slept with anyone other than The Hubs for 18 months and if you don't count The Friend it has been about 3 years for anyone else. Sometimes I find myself wondering if I can even count myself amongst the "swingers" anymore.
Yes, The Hubs and I have permission to play, and I think we'd both enjoy a naughty playdate together but the fact of the matter is there is nothing on the horizon to that point. The Hubs has a friend he meets up with about once every 2-3 months. She is a newbie so isn't comfortable with me adding in and I respect that. Also, I'm ok with The Hubs having some time without me. And yes, I have The Friend. But let's be honest, we flirt a lot more than we act. We have gotten together 2 times in the last 3 years. It isn't exactly a standing appointment. There are also some complications with that story that I'm trying to wrap my head around. More to come on that :)
So, I am here. And I want to be here. I want to have hot stories to share, I want to see the look on The Hubs face I suck his dick while another fucks me from behind. We just have to get back into the swing of things. (Pun fully intended!) And maybe soon I'll have something good to share. Until then stick by me and we'll see if we can find some juicy stuff to share... ;)
The Wife
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Saturday, October 31, 2015
Wednesday, April 29, 2015
Lately
Well, I had a baby.
As it usually happens when you're pregnant after a general set number of weeks the kid comes out one way or another. So one chapter in our lives has come to a close and I thought I'd get caught up here.
Life lately for The Hubs and I has been very vanilla. During the pregnancy and since delivery we have been *gasp* monogamous, haha! I mean, the first two months of a newborn's life is like military boot camp for the parents. It's not pretty. No one sleeps, no one and I mean no one is feeling sexy. I remember one time around the 4 week mark I reached over and grabbed The Hubs' cock. He just looked at me and kind of laughed. Yea, we both rolled over and took the few moments of sleep we could get.
Thankfully that phase is over now and it's much less survival and getting more routine. Or maybe you just learn to run on less sleep? Either way sex has started to be a priority again. So far it has just been with each other, but as time marches on we are both still open to our old ways. We're heading to Key West at some point this summer to celebrate my birthday. Maybe this will be the year of the gang bang? Ya never know.
So I guess you could say I'm back ;) hopefully I'll have some new stories soon, until then we'll relive the highlight reel.
The Wife
As it usually happens when you're pregnant after a general set number of weeks the kid comes out one way or another. So one chapter in our lives has come to a close and I thought I'd get caught up here.
Life lately for The Hubs and I has been very vanilla. During the pregnancy and since delivery we have been *gasp* monogamous, haha! I mean, the first two months of a newborn's life is like military boot camp for the parents. It's not pretty. No one sleeps, no one and I mean no one is feeling sexy. I remember one time around the 4 week mark I reached over and grabbed The Hubs' cock. He just looked at me and kind of laughed. Yea, we both rolled over and took the few moments of sleep we could get.
Thankfully that phase is over now and it's much less survival and getting more routine. Or maybe you just learn to run on less sleep? Either way sex has started to be a priority again. So far it has just been with each other, but as time marches on we are both still open to our old ways. We're heading to Key West at some point this summer to celebrate my birthday. Maybe this will be the year of the gang bang? Ya never know.
So I guess you could say I'm back ;) hopefully I'll have some new stories soon, until then we'll relive the highlight reel.
The Wife